Friday, May 23, 2014

Same Problems, Differnt Place

I have lived in many different places, both in and out of the US and one thing I know For Sure is that people are people no matter where you are. When many people think about Africa (said in a voice of awe and grandeur), they imagine a place where they would have Nothing in common with the people in these villages, and thus pity those people. I am here to tell you that you have more in common with these “village” people (ignore the band please) then you ever thought.
I will make an example: I work with a small village of only about 300 people (or around the amount of people that live in a small neighborhood) and within this small village, they have spilt between the north and the south. Now, the north and the south do not like to work together, thinking both sides have it better (back in the neighborhood, you might have a similar problem, one side is closer to the school or gets more money from the government, so there is now animosity in this small place).  A small community, no matter where it is in the world, will have similar problems in the end. One problem with development is that we forget that we have similar problems at home, and we need to remember how we overcame those problems, to help them overcome them as well.
People here and everywhere worry about similar things: Money, family, food, life. I wake up every morning around 6am, go to the bathroom (which is quite a walk), come back to my house, and sit on my balcony. Within 30 mins, I hear the women coming to the Vondro (lesser cattails) reeds right across from my place. I know that they too have been up for some time, getting food ready, saying goodbye to their husbands as they go to work (mostly to their farms and fishing) and hopefully sending their kids to school. Does this scenario sound somewhat the same for many of you, the only difference is what you will spend your time doing.  They spend their mornings cutting and collecting the reeds to sell, and you might go shopping, go to work in an office, or stay in the house, cleaning or taking care of young children. Their house is a simple thatch wall and roof structure, that lets a wonderful breeze in and will never have to clean their floor…b/c its only sand. Your house is probably made out of plaster, wood and other materials, there is No wind that comes through your house unless a window is open and you are in constant action keeping the floors clean. Both of these lives have their problems and their joys; each group wishes to know more about how the other lives, but could not imagine how they live that way. Both only know how the other lives through movies, TV shows, magazines and what they might teach in school. None of these are a good way to learn how the other lives.
With this and my last blog, I write to show others how different and similar life is here to where you might live. Peace Corps is a great experience that showed me that people are people no matter where you are and that’s a wonderful thing! Many people still have this image of Africa in their heads of naked people in mud huts, with no food, and for the most part unhappy with their lives; could not be less true, just because you’re naked and live in a mud hut, does not make you unhappy. There are of course starving children, but they are everywhere in the world, not just in Africa. Here is my blog post all about Africa: https://peacecorpstesssmay.blogspot.com/b/post-preview?token=6dqiKUYBAAA.VsYeNXCoDH8nxYV1TjzM4w.846aLRohEsJeTWl29wkeaA&postId=813804449211661175&type=POST

I love my life in Madagascar, I know many of the people I work with in the villages also love their life in Madagascar. Don’t judge what you don’t understand, don’t give unfair voices to those whose you have never spoken to, be the best person you can be, without making others out to be the worst person. Ok, I think that’s enough for now, J Till next time, Merci!

Saturday, May 17, 2014

My 28th and 2 month anniversary!

Two Months!!!!! Time fly’s as you age, I can’t tell you how many people have told me this, and I know, I know that its true….but damn if it does not creep up on you!! There are certain things that seem to hold true throughout most of Africa, and after spending a little over 2 years in Ghana, I had become accustomed to so many things, that I forgot how certain things were.
Here are some things that are old/new to me:
 1. The smell of animal intestines out in a hot market, something you can never forget!
2. Men treating you as a piece of meat, grabbing my butt and hissing at me, ARG,
3. How busy things can get during the night, when it is so quite during the day,
4. Being stared at as a Super Star, and an oddity all at the same time!
5. Eating food you are not sure what is, but why not,
6. Knowing someone is talking about you in a different language, but not knowing what they are saying,
7. Getting to PEE anywhere I want, and im a girl!! WOO,
 8. Bargaining, a skill that many have lost and should try,
9. Large beers for Super cheap,
10. Thinking you might know that white person on the other side of the street, but not wanting to wave because that might be awkward….
11. Africa time….a slow time,  
12. Enjoying the little things in my own time!
13. Getting to download things in safety,
14. Having there be no need to tip since service is TERRIBLE,
15. How great/terrible public transportation can be to learn more about the country you are in.
These are a few of the things that have come flooding back to me since I have been back in Africa. And I love each one of them in their own special way!
For my birthday, I went a concert at my regional capital-Tulear-and saw a man called Damily. He plays a style of music called tsapiky, its interesting, and made me want to dance. Ghana taught me how to dance, and to not care about how I dance. So I of course got down with my bad self and danced at the concert. This of course caused a HUGE thing, and everyone stopped what they were doing to stare!! O my! After sometime, others joined and it was Fun!! But of course there comes a price for my free-style dance moves, as we were leaving, we all got groped, ass pinched and arm caressed! So annoying that they feel this is ok to do, but all you can do is glare and slap that hand away.

It was a great day to celebrate my 28th birthday and my 2 months in Madagascar. I am still loving life here and all that I am doing. We are starting on some new projects and getting more partners to help us out. If you know of any company that needs to give away some of its money, let me knowJ! Well, I think that’s all for the moment! But thank you again for all the birthday wishes! And till next time, Merci!